My thoughts on “Being Maria” and the importance of intimacy coordination in film

Yesterday I watched Being Maria, a poignant film by Jessica Palud that really moved me. A biographical retelling of Maria Schneider’s turbulent life, it’s also a critical reflection on the importance of intimacy coordination and the refusal to normalise abuse. Being Maria feels especially relevant, highlighting the damage caused by the lack of protection and respect for actors, particularly young and vulnerable ones.

What makes Being Maria such a harrowing film is the focus on the devastating consequences Schneider faced after her traumatic experience in Bernardo Bertolucci’s Last Tango in Paris. At just 19, Schneider became famous for her role in the film, but at the cost of deep emotional wounds. From the lack of support from her family to her descent into heroin addiction, Being Maria powerfully conveys the palpable sense of isolation and betrayal that Maria Schneider experienced.

Director Jessica Palud and co-writer Laurette Polmanss  took inspiration for this film from the memoir of Schneider’s cousin. It might have a somewhat predictable arc but it holds an important message. Anamaria Vartolomei delivers a raw performance as Maria and this film is essential viewing to reflect on the ethical treatment of artists. It leaves a lasting impact that lingers long after the credits roll.